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Welcome to The UNKAGED™ Woman, the podcast where high-achieving Black and Brown women stop shrinking and start showing up fully as themselves.
Hosted by Brig Johnson, APN, MSNA, Master Coach Instructor, Nurse Anesthesiologist, and the Black Woman Thrive Architect, this is not another wellness podcast telling you to breathe and journal your way through burnout. Brig brings neurobiology, clinical insight, real lived experience, and the kind of truth most coaching spaces are too polished to say out loud.
Here is what nobody is telling you: you are not the problem. You are running patterns that were wired into you long before you had a choice, and those patterns are draining your health, your joy, your relationships, and your sense of self.
If you have ever:
- Hit every goal and still felt like something was missing
- Said yes when your whole body was screaming no
- Been the strong one so long you stopped knowing what you actually need
- Kept pushing because rest felt like a luxury you hadn't earned
- Made yourself smaller to avoid conflict at work, at home, in love
- Felt guilty for wanting more when everyone says you should be grateful
- Wondered why doing everything right still doesn't feel like enough
This podcast was made for you.
Each week, Brig gets into the survival patterns that keep accomplished women stuck, exhausted, and disconnected from themselves. And explores how to stop over-functioning, build boundaries that actually stick, and live in a way that matches the woman you have worked so hard to become.
This show is for the woman holding everything together while running on empty. The one who is done performing fine and ready to feel it for real.
You were never broken. You were just never given a framework built for you.
Welcome to UNKAGED™.
New episodes drop weekly. Visit https://brigjohnson.com/ to learn more about Brig Johnson and her coaching services.
Episodes
![EP. 195 [Women Winning Series] Learning How to Say NO! with Robyn Spens](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/9980508/Cover-TheUnkagedWoman_3_b8ym6_300x300.jpg){kind=logo}
Sep 2, 2024
Sep 2, 2024
34 min
In the hustle of everyday life, we often find ourselves saying "yes" more than we'd like, leading to overwhelm, stress, and dissatisfaction. But what if the power to change that lies in two simple letters: N-O?
In our latest episode, we dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with Robyn Spens, a therapist and coach who has transformed from a gemologist to a guardian of personal space and self-respect. Robin's journey is as sparkling as the diamonds she once dealt with. She fought her way through a masculine-dominated industry to find her true calling in helping others reclaim their voices. Her story is not just inspiring; it's a roadmap for anyone feeling trapped in the cycle of people-pleasing.
Brig and Robin explore the societal pressures that condition us to please others at the expense of our own needs, and the resulting stress and resentment that builds up when we can't say no. Listen in to discover how saying no can actually lead to more respect and authenticity in relationships, and why it's a critical skill for stress relief and emotional well-being.
As Robin eloquently puts it, "It's okay that your no is a whisper and then it becomes a roar." Let this conversation guide you there.
GUEST CONTACT —
Robyn Spens, Therapist, Coach and Founder of The Boundary Club | Website | Instagram
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Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Aug 26, 2024
Aug 26, 2024
44 min
Are you ready to break through the barriers of self-doubt and command your worth with unshakeable confidence? Then this episode is for you.
In this special edition of the Women Winning Series, Brig sits down with Valera Wilson, the author of "You Are Absolutely Worth It" and a seasoned marketing strategist. Her journey from grappling with self-doubt to becoming a beacon of empowerment for others is not just inspirational—it's a roadmap for anyone ready to own their value in every space they occupy.
Valera's insights into the common swirl of self-doubt among women, especially women of color, are eye-opening. She reminds us that questioning our worth is not unique to us; it's a shared experience that we can overcome together. With practical advice and relatable anecdotes, Valera guides us through the process of peeling back the layers of our fears to find the root causes of our limiting beliefs. And she shares her wisdom on how to assert your worth in the workplace, negotiate salaries with confidence, and speak up with conviction—even when it's uncomfortable.
Press play to join in on this discussion about overcoming imposter syndrome, mastering negotiation, and leading with confidence.
GUEST CONTACT —
Velera Wilson, Speaker, Author and Consultant| Website | Instagram | Book: "You Are Absolutely Worth It"
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
- Register for the Next Melanin Hour here
- Book a Breakthrough Call here
- Share Your Takeaways With Me at brig@brigjohnson.com
LET’S GET SOCIAL —
Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Aug 19, 2024
Aug 19, 2024
46 min
Join Brig as she engages in an authentic conversation with life coach and business strategist Cledra Gross, who shares her personal trials from the loss of a marriage to the rebirth of her purpose.
Cledra reveals the profound impact of her experiences, from the sting of infidelity to the silent struggle with infertility, and the resilience it took to navigate through the pain of a crumbling marriage.
Whether you're weathering the storm of a relationship in flux, stepping into a new chapter post-divorce, or simply seeking wisdom on how to thrive in the face of adversity, this conversation is a testament to the fact that while our plans may fracture, our spirits can emerge stronger.
Don't miss this inspiring discussion on the trials of divorce, the power of personal growth, and the unspoken stress of societal expectations.
Topics discussed:
- The emotional toll of infidelity and divorce
- The journey of self-discovery and healing post-separation
- The importance of self-compassion and professional support during tough transitions
- Embracing the unpredictable nature of life and relationships
- Finding happiness and purpose regardless of relationship status
GUEST CONTACT —
Cledra Gross, Life Coach and Business Strategist | Website | Instagram
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EP. 121 Bad Things Happen To Good Girls
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Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Aug 12, 2024
Aug 12, 2024
51 min
On this episode, Brig is joined by Maggie Reyes, Master Certified Life Coach and Modern Marriage Mentor who specializes in helping driven, ambitious women create their best marriages, without waiting for their partners to change or adding more work to their lives.
Maggie brings her wealth of knowledge and personal insights to the table, sharing the concept of "sexy besties" and the importance of being both passionate lovers and supportive friends.
Listen in as Maggie and Brig explore the nuances of communication beyond words, the significance of intimacy that transcends the physical, and how creating new experiences can reignite the flame in your partnership. They also tackle the impact of stress on relationships, especially for those with marginalized identities, and discuss strategies for building psychological safety and maintaining emotional well-being.
Whether you're looking to enhance your marriage, navigate the complexities of dating, or simply understand the dynamics of a successful relationship, this episode has lots of gems and practical advice you can draw from.
Topics include:
- The "sexy besties" concept and its role in sustaining romance
- The power of new experiences in rekindling relationships
- Effective communication and intimacy beyond the physical
- The influence of stress and psychological safety in partnerships
- Maggie's journey to becoming a marriage and relationship expert
GUEST CONTACT —
Maggie Reyes, Life Coach + Marriage Mentor | Website | Instagram | The Marriage Life Coach Podcast | Questions for Couples Journal: 400 Questions to Enjoy, Reflect, and Connect with Your Partner (Relationship Books for Couples)
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
- Register for the Next Melanin Hour here
- Book a Breakthrough Call here
- Share Your Takeaways With Me at brig@brigjohnson.com
LET’S GET SOCIAL —
Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Aug 5, 2024
Aug 5, 2024
28 min
In a world where we're constantly bombarded with advice and opinions, it's easy to lose sight of our own inner wisdom.
Today Brig dives deep into a subject that touches every aspect of our lives—decisions. Brig explores the frequent coaching topic of decision-making and how we often undermine our own choices by constantly seeking external validation. She emphasizes the importance of trusting your own decisions and going all in, instead of playing the "squirrel" game—jumping from one method to another without fully committing.
Brig also shares practical strategies for honoring your decisions, including setting a specific timeframe for evaluation and managing the discomfort that comes with sticking to your choices. Whether it's your career, relationships, or personal goals, this episode will empower you to reclaim your authority and trust your inner wisdom.
If you're tired of second-guessing yourself and ready to make empowered decisions, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to break free from confusion and step into your power.
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
- Register for the Next Melanin Hour here
- Book a Breakthrough Call here
- Share Your Takeaways With Me at brig@brigjohnson.com
LET’S GET SOCIAL —
Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Jul 29, 2024
Jul 29, 2024
56 min
In this eye-opening episode, Brig sits down with Twany, a client and fellow coach, to discuss the intricacies of coaching across different marginalized identities. Twany shares her transformative journey, revealing how coaching helped her navigate complex family dynamics and uncover hidden strengths.
Despite not being a black woman, Twany found immense value in Brig's coaching, which underscores the universality of certain struggles among marginalized communities. They explore the concept of the "marginalized brain" and how deeply ingrained cultural complexities shape our responses to life's challenges.
Twany opens up about her initial resistance to coaching on family issues, believing she had already dealt with them through therapy. However, Brig's unique approach helped her see the broader impact of these unresolved issues on her personal and professional life. Through candid conversations and real-life examples, they explore the importance of setting boundaries, maintaining self-worth, and finding empowerment in seemingly powerless situations.
If you've ever felt trapped by familial expectations or societal norms, this episode offers valuable insights into reclaiming your power and living authentically. Tune in to discover how coaching can illuminate hidden paths and create lasting change.
GUEST CONTACT —
Tawny Ann De La Peña, The Messaging Expert For Life Coaches | Website
MENTIONED —
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
- Register for the Next Melanin Hour here
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Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Jul 22, 2024
Jul 22, 2024
30 min
What's holding you back from achieving your epic-ness?
In this episode, Brig dives into the critical elements of decision making, self-trust, and overcoming distractions for high achieving black women. She emphasizes that creating a fulfilling life isn't just about financial success; it's about nurturing relationships and building a strong support system.
Brig also highlights the unique challenges faced by black women, including mental fatigue and distractions that can hinder progress. She offers practical advice on minimizing these distractions and fostering an environment of self-trust and intentional decision-making.
If you're ready to overcome what's holding you back and create a life filled with epic achievements, this episode is a must-listen. Join Brig as she provides valuable insights and actionable steps to help you on your journey.
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
- Register for the Next Melanin Hour here
- Book a Breakthrough Call here
- Share Your Takeaways With Me at brig@brigjohnson.com
LET’S GET SOCIAL —
Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Jul 15, 2024
Jul 15, 2024
47 min
Ever wondered what it's like to have a friend who's also your coach?
In this heartwarming and insightful episode, Brig welcomes her bestie and fellow coach, TaVona, to dive deep into the unique dynamics of their “froach” relationship. From the highs and lows of their coaching journey to pivotal moments of personal growth, this episode is a candid look at how having a friend who’s a coach can transform your life.
TaVona shares her experience of navigating through life’s challenges with Brig by her side, discussing the importance of being ready for deep, transformational work. They explore the nuances of readiness, the impact of consistent support, and how coaching can help you tackle life's biggest hurdles. If you've ever felt stuck or wondered about the power of having a “froach”, this episode is a must-listen.
Grab your tea and join Brig and TaVona as they spill the tea on coaching, friendship, and the journey to self-discovery.
GUEST CONTACT —
TaVona Denise, Master-Certified Life And Business Coach | Website
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
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- Share Your Takeaways With Me at brig@brigjohnson.com
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Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Jul 8, 2024
Jul 8, 2024
56 min
In this empowering episode of Women Winning Series, we explore the resilience of the human spirit with the remarkable Felicia Cox, also known as the Iron Diva. As a renowned IFBB Pro bodybuilder, fitness expert, and survivor, Felicia shares her harrowing experience of a medical setback that nearly stripped her of her identity and vitality. Her story is a testament to the power of movement, the necessity of stress recovery, and the undying strength we possess even in the face of adversity.
Whether you're a CEO, a parent, or someone who's simply trying to make it through the day, Felicia's insights on movement and stress recovery are invaluable. You’ll hear us explain the physical effects of stress on the body and why we must prioritize our health to be ready for life's unexpected moments.
Tune in, be inspired, and remember that no matter the setback, the capacity to recover and thrive is within all of us.
GUEST CONTACT —
Felicia Cox, Business owner, Author and Fitness Expert | Instagram | Book: "I Am Worthy" | Email: iamworthy0712@gmail.com
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
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Website - http://brigjohnson.com/
Jul 1, 2024
Jul 1, 2024
23 min
Are you constantly putting others' needs above your own? It's time to reclaim your worth and set boundaries.
In this powerful episode, Brig tackles the deeply ingrained issue of caretaking, especially among black women and marginalized identities. Raised to believe that our worth is tied to taking care of others, we often find ourselves prioritizing everyone else's needs above our own. Brig explores how this conditioning affects our intimate relationships, parenting, and overall mental health.
She challenges us to question the societal norms that dictate our roles as caretakers and the emotional toll it takes on us. Brig emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and allowing others to face the consequences of their actions. By doing so, we not only free ourselves from unnecessary stress but also give others the opportunity to grow and take responsibility for their own lives.
If you're tired of the endless cycle of caretaking and ready to reclaim your value, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of caretaking and focus on your personal growth.
RESOURCES —
- Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash
- Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here
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Website - http://brigjohnson.com/